Happy Four Years of Marriage

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Four years of marriage equals family of four. I couldn’t have it any other way; I love Jacob and both of our daughters (Evelyn and Leah) equally. Exactly a week ago on 21st has marked four years ago since Jacob and I got married. 

We’ve learned so much over the past four years. We’ve learned more things about each other, we’ve done our best to constantly show support with each other’s decisions, we’ve done our best to constantly show each other that we care about each other especially our emotions, we’ve gone on multiple dates (more than fifteen dates - not like I was counting how many dates that we've gone on) before having children, we continued to go on dates after giving birth to Evelyn and before Leah was born, and so far, we’ve gone on one date after I’ve given birth to Leah. 

Within two years of marriage; we’ve become parents to Evelyn. Evelyn has been a huge blessing to our lives and she has come a long way despite entering into the world eight weeks prior to her due date. Her smiles and her laughs has always helped boost my self-esteem, it has always made me smile and laugh. 

I love watching her grow, I've enjoyed watching her trying out many different foods with different textures, and watch her learn so many things. I know that Evelyn loves being a Daddy's girl since prior to her first Birthday. 

Leah has been a huge blessing to our lives too. Leah seems to be a Mummy's girl at the moment. Whenever she is crying while getting held by Daddy, Jacob gives me Leah most of the time and instantly Leah stops crying. 

What are some of the things that marriages is involves with? 

Marriage involves commitment to love other constantly. Marriage involves with finding some time to go on dates regularly (at home dates are included and often cheaper than eating at a sit down restaurant). Marriage involves with a lot of communication (effective communication is best) and a lot of times for having agreements is great.

 
However keep in mind whenever there is a disagreement; don't argue and don't get frustrated with your spouse because that doesn't resolve the disagreement. The best way to overcome the disagreements is by talking to each other kindly, working out multiple solutions together and find alternative ways of how to prevent disagreements from happening again. 

Marriage involves with forgiveness. We all make mistakes and sometimes during marriages, there are words that has been said and didn't mean to be said at all. We need to learn to forgive each other. 

Marriage involves with self-care. We all need to take care of ourselves. As individuals, we need to focus on ourselves for getting enough sleep, consuming enough food daily, consuming enough fluids daily, and so forth. 

Marriage involves with income. Everything cost money no matter where we are at in life. For marriage to have any income helps pays for the necessary bills, helps pays for the entertainment that we have, helps pays for the groceries, helps pays for the clothes that we wear, and so forth. 

Stay Tuned until next time.