Your Feelings Matters

 Good Morning or Good Afternoon or Good Evening,

This post should take four minutes to seven minutes to read from start to finish. 

Sometimes we do not think that our feelings feel valid and matters but I would like to let you know that all of your feelings are valid and do matter. Sometimes we do feel overwhelmed of having mixed feelings. It is completely normal to feel happy and sad at the same time.

Do you ever overthink about your past decisions? Do you ever overthink about your current decisions? Do you ever overthink about your future decisions would be like? 

How often do you feel a little sad? How often do you feel that you do not know the answer/s to the question/s that you have been asked? How often do you forgive yourself about making mistakes? 

How often do you allow yourself to have a break and rest? How do you get through the day? Do you struggle with staying positive? 

Have you ever set your own boundaries to anyone who you trust? Have you ever set your own boundaries to anyone who you love?

How often do you feel insecure? What are several things that you do when you get through the insecure feeling?

IT'S OKAY IF YOU ...

Are overthinking it

Feel a little sad

Don't know the answer

Made a mistake

Need to rest today

Struggle to stay positive 

Don't know what to do next

Have your own boundaries 

Feel insecure today

I used to overthink a lot about my past decisions and how I felt that I should have made some better decisions. Time to time I still overthink about my current decisions in life and how I would like to know about several possible outcomes would be for each decision that I possibly make. I do not think that I have faced overthinking about my future decisions yet because I am often trying to focus about my current decisions in life. 

Sometimes I do feel a little sad. I do feel sad each time after finding out someone is going through tougher times than I am. I feel sorry for them. We all go through tough times and whenever we do go through tough times, it can be difficult or it can be easy to find out our true and real friends are. 

I know at times I just do not know the answer/s of the question/s that I have been asked by people. Whenever I do not know the answer/s of the question/s, I always suggest to them of several sources that they can rely on for how they can receive their answer/s that they are looking for. 

I know that I do make mistakes, I am not perfect individual, and I always seek forgiveness after making mistakes. Whenever Evelyn takes her naps throughout the week, I find those are perfect timing opportunities for me to either take a nap with her or just take a moment and relax of doing 

some blogging or editing some photos. 

I may not always show it but I do struggle of staying positive. I have struggled of staying strong and positive while Jacob was at work and I was staying at home with Evelyn but I still do not know how I got through those days. I used to say to Evelyn often and before she turned 1 years old; "maybe Daddy will have a short day from work today and he can spend some time with us." 

The funny thing was 75% of the times; Jacob would have worked less than 9 hours on those days. I always like to plan my day to day with a list of things to do because it helps me to focus on what things that I would like accomplished throughout the day. 

There has been times when I do not plan my day to day with a list of things to do, I feel that sometimes I do not know what to do next after completing a task. It is normal feeling to sometimes feel that we do not know what to do after completing a task. 

I know that setting boundaries is always a good idea and I know it is completely normal to insecure at times. 

Stay Tuned until next time.